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I live in Sedona's avatar

I apologized to a friend when I hadn't done anything "wrong" but she misinterpreted what I had said. She was grieving her recently departed mother so she was in a highly emotional state.

I apologized for hurting her, despite my not being"guilty." Then she apologized to me for misinterpreting my words.

After a year or so after I reached out to apologize, we resume our relationship.

So don't just apologize when you are "wrong" but also apologize when you've had a rupture in your relationship.

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Scott Ninneman/SpeakingBipolar's avatar

That's a great experience. Yes, sometimes we need to apologize just to heal a relationship. Thanks for the reminder!

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